Women Prefer Bad Dudes

The University of British Columbia (that’s in Canada folks), did a study of just over 1000 people divided evenly between men and women of all ages, and uncovered a few behavioral surprises. (American Psychological Association Journal "Emotion")
http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/2011-10737-001/

The study had the people look at pictures of people of the opposite sex who had neutral expressions, looked happy, looked shameful, looked proud, or looked brooding. The participants were asked to rate their attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 9.

Women liked a proud physical expression on a man, and younger women were second most turned on to shameful expressions with sagging shoulders, etc.. For some reason, all age groups were not that attracted to pictures of men who were happy.

Likely women are attracted to successful looking guys because of the security that they represent. It would seem that women are looking for a good provider. Brooding bad boys are also quite attractive to younger women because in their hearts, they know they are brooding because they have not found the right woman and assume they will help them overcome that fault.

Because we are creatures of millions of years of evolution with just a couple of thousand years of social skills layered on, women are instinctively attracted to good hunters (successful men) who can keep them and their children fed. Bad ass dudes would be able to provide them protection.

Men on the other hand find happiness and laughter in women the most attractive trait, while pride is a turn off. The happiness makes sense, because most guys put up with crap on the job all day and just do not want to face it at night as well.

Women with a shameful expression were also somewhat attractive to men. The shame thing might just be a hint that you have a bit of bad girl in you so they are curious to see just how bad you are.

Using our cave man analogy again, what cave man in his right mind would want to come home from a hard day hunting animals and find that the wife had already cooked a meal from a rabbit she killed with a stone and roots she had already dug up – makes him look second rate after all.

So what can we derive from this study:

1) For Guys, you need to be a successful looking hard-ass dude with glitter and attitude.
2) For Women, acting like you are better than everyone else, running down other people, or complaining about work all the time are all sure ways to send any guy packing. You need to be seen as a smiling, fun loving optimist, eager to look for the silver lining around any gray clouds in your life, and be willing to try new things. If you cannot pull of the happy face all the time, then the other approach would be to act like you were just caught with your pants down in church. If you look embarrassed or shameful about something, then men think you likely have something to be embarrassed about. They will likely stick around to find out if you can both participate in other potentially "embarrassing" encounters.

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Lesbian Relationships

 For many lesbians, finding the love of your life can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an true profile that is fun and friendly, and then just sit back and wait for them to come to you. Sounds easy right , well it is, but you will get a lot more action if you take the time to initiate contact with other people on the site. Look at other people's profiles and reach out to them via chat or email on the site. You will likely find some really interested women to connect with. On top of that, you may find some ideas that you might want to capitalize on and add to your profile. If someone's wording or ideas caught your eye, then similar wording or ideas might help your profile catch someone else's eye. A great number of lesbians are often exposed to different types of groups of people as they go about social, work or other events of importance in their lives. Specialty events are the best places to meet someone with at least one common passion that you can share.

 A bad mistake that many lesbians make when having their first relationship is rushing into things too quickly. Soon you might find yourself in bed next to an individual that you don't really know. Go out on a few outings first, get to know each other to find out what you have in common. You need to have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will compliment each other. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a friend has a baby, a party is planned, a commendation you might have gotten, be sure to involve your partner, you should not only think of them as your lover but also your best friend.

If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is upset by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives|One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. Hopefully your family and friends understand your sexuality so you can then tell them that you are not at all amused at what was said, and if the attitude persists that you will have to find other people to hang out with. After all, you have to be true to yourself and your partner.

Introduce your partner to your friends and family and involve them in everything that you do. This is an important step to establishing and keeping a relationship.

From a purely sexual perspective, being a lesbian, you already understand just how sexual a lesbian can be. Since both are female, lesbians can typically keep each other sexually satisfied for hours at a time. Men seldom last longer than 30 minutes, so that pretty much means that lesbians are God's chosen people when it comes to sexual satisfaction. When one woman is making love to another woman each just naturally knows which enjoyment buttons to press for each other.  Gay men are similarly blessed, but too bad about the aids specter.  Pity the poor heterosexual couples where each party is not quite sure what makes the other either satisfied or happy.

The lesbian life is the best that there is, so love your life and live it to the max. Live, love and share your life with others, and surround yourself with friends and family who will be there for you in both good times and bad.

 Remember that other people may not be comfortable with a lifestyle that they are confused about so ensure that you at least surround yourself with friends and family who have a positive attitude to both you, your sexuality, and your situation.  Since you are lesbians, it would be best if you have understanding friends from the gay community at large. It is difficult to find truly open minded heterosexual friends, so if you find some, then nurture them well.

Just remember that after God created Adam and Eve, she realized her mistake and gave Eve a lesbian friend to keep her happy.  Adam was such a domineering sexual schmuck after all.


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