Now don't get me wrong, I'm not weird or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, youngsters and a condo, being single is not what I want to be for the rest of my life. I have been single for 22 years, single is my closest companion, I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I would love to have a relationship with someone other than my sex toys, college dating stinks, for me anyway. Why does it appear like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, Why can I not be successful at finding the love of my life?
I asked a close companion once (no not my dog), but rather a college friend how she does it, I told her that when I go to a frat party or some little get together in one of the dorms, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me what I would do if someone tried to line jump in front of me. I replied I would elbow them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said excellent, the next time some honey tries to take your man just push her aside, slide up to the hot dude of your dreams and make him slobber all over you. Maybe I should have asked my gold fish.
I guess I do not get some college guys, I'm a smart attractive coed but they act like I have two heads. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sex, for most college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.
But its not just college girls who have problems, there are college dudes who do not seem to play well with college babes. It seems if you won't go to bed with them thye think you are a wuss, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The boys tell me that a lot of the college girls would like them to get in the sack with them and if they don't make a move she spreads rumors that they're gay. These are nice guys that have respect for women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these ladies see that these men will not accept this sort of disrespect.
However there might be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the men and women have decided to signup to some of the better online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. People on these sites could care less what color your hair is and they're not just interested in a good time in bed, they're really nice people, and college students like us. They have a life plan that includes more than just getting through the current semester. They are interested in finding that certain person and one day settling down. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I had no idea at the time what he was up to or how they found each other.
I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself. My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. They said that this is where they started to look for college dating sites to join, and they have nothing but good things to say about the way the site recommends and rates the various college dating sites. Hopefully I will be as successful as they were and find the person that I will spend the rest of my life with. If you are in college or looking to date someone who is in college why don't you follow this link:
Coed Dating
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