Dating BDSM is not for everyone. If you are clueless about it, BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. If that gives you an image of people slapping each other black and blue, you need to understand that BDSM is not meant to be that physically abusive. Basically, BDSM aficionados are people who pretend to hurt each other for the most part. Whips that are used are usually have wide strips on them so that they will not cut skin. People do not hit hard because the excitement is in the domination or submissive nature of the act, not in causing pain. Getting your hind end slapped is actually a good way to add zing to an orgasm. On the same note, the bondage side of it is quite real. This is usually fulfilled by just being lightly tied to a bed so that you are under someone's total control when making love. If you ever go to a sex show, there are often several merchants who sell special beds for bondage, or special sheets with tie-down strips on them to facilitate bondage. The thrill here is to let someone dominate you, to put your trust into someone. What you will find is that BDSM can bring you to a sexual peak that you cannot understand until you have experienced it.
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